(By
Danny Nsa) - So I finally got to see Mother's Love directed by Omotola Jalade Ekeinde and I just have a lot to say. 🤦♂️
There’s something almost deceptive about a film like Mother’s Love. On paper, it has everything you need for an emotional knockout: grief, control, class tension, forbidden love, and that very African parent child dynamic where “I just want to protect you” slowly starts to sound like “I don’t trust you to live.” It’s familiar. It’s personal. It’s the kind of story that should hit you in the chest without warning.
But watching it, I found myself doing something strange… observing it instead of feeling it.
And that, for me, is where the film quietly loses its grip.
From my perspective, the biggest issue with Mother’s Love is not ambition. In fact, ambition is the one thing it has in abundance. The film clearly wants to say something meaningful about how grief reshapes love into control, how class divides influence identity, and how young people struggle to breathe under the weight of inherited fear. These are not small ideas. These are heavy, layered, deeply human conversations.
But here’s the problem: the film doesn’t trust those ideas enough to let them exist naturally.
Instead, it explains them. Loudly. Repeatedly. Almost like it’s afraid the audience might miss the point.
Take the parents, for instance. I understand what the film is trying to do with them. They are not just strict. They are wounded. Their overprotectiveness is supposed to come from a place of loss, a fear of “not again.” That’s powerful. That’s real. But the execution strips them of that humanity.
Their reactions feel dialed up to a hundred almost immediately.