Showing posts with label Faith and family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Faith and family. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 02, 2014

Why Faith and Family?

We Africans are reputed to be notoriously religious. Our faith is not divorced from our everyday life.  More so, in Nigeria, our faith imbues our everyday actions and behaviors.  This is evident in how much faith or religious-flavored expressions have permeated our everyday parlance.  And that cuts across all strata of social interactions.  “God dey,” once the solace of the poor, I am told, has also become a succor for the rich.  Someone once said to me, “Father, na before dem dey talk say ‘God dey’ na poor man prayer oh.  Now na rich people even dey pray am pass.”
We are familiar with the passion with which many Nigerians forever cover everything with “the blood of Jesus” or perpetually “cast” and “bind” and then send whatever it is “back to the sender” or “to the bottomless pit.”  Indeed, “God pass dem.” Phrases like “to God be the glory” (a favorite of Nollywood home videos), “na God” and “by his grace” have become acceptable ways of acknowledging greetings and compliments. Some of my non-Nigerian friends, all thanks again to our enchanting Nollywood movies, tease me to no end with “my broda, we thank God oh, we thank God oh.”
All of this indicates that, for good or bad, faith orients our lives, albeit in some quarters, shallow faith and popular religiosity lead to faith schizophrenism, an unstable, inconsistent or contradictory mentality or approach to faith, a situation where one is neither here nor there.  This results in an eclecticism that drives one, as we say, from pillar to post, as one traverses all kinds of churches, spiritual homes, shrines, and beaches—in the name of searching for healing and answers to prayer.