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| Source: anglianwater |
(The Guardian)--The Facebook name-pronunciation feature made me realize
that, after a lifetime of code-switching, I want to pronounce my name as my
mother intended
Facebook’s feature allowing
you to choose an
accurate pronunciation of your name for everyone to see (and hear)
seems simple enough. Helpful, even. But I haven’t pronounced my name correctly
in the last 27 years, and I’m afraid to start now.
I introduce myself as a
three syllable SAH-dee-uh, when my name is actually a two-syllable Sa-Dhya,
adapted from a sharper-sounding Arabic name to roll off a softer, Urdu-speaking
palate. The trick is in the D. When I spell out “D as in David” to the Comcast
rep on the phone, what I should be saying is “D as in Theo.”
But I don’t say that.
Pronouncing my name the way my mother intended is more foreign to me now than
the other way around. Here’s the uncomfortable reason why: I’m afraid my name
sounds too ... ethnic. That Sa-Dhya won’t fit in with her mainstream white
American friends and co-workers anymore. That saying my name “the right way”
will somehow negate the fact that I was born in this country and feel more
American than Pakistani.

