I have a serious matter at hand that I want to share.
In fact, I should have shared this long ago, but the primary message from a
friend that prompted the matter, was lost in between the series of inbox
messages from those strange girls that are looking for romantic friendships on
Facebook.
In a nutshell, a lady friend sent me an inbox message
on how it's harder to find a good man in Nigeria. And that the men who are
"manageable" (her words, not mine) are so scarce and if you ever get
them they are either married to a lady that does not deserve them or just
repenting from a bad marriage from one of such women. Or even just lost faith
in the whole marriage thing.
I later ran into her at a club. After the usual
introductions that have become common place with these social media network of
friends... (You are my friend on twitter, Facebook, Tango, INSTAGRAM... That
kind of thing).... I chatted with her a bit and found out from what she told
me, that, many women are now settling for anything in between MR Right, MR Not
just ok and MR Nearly right. As she put it, it's now a case of looking at what
a guy checks out in the top 10 box... And if he has 3 out of 10, snap him up...
Work on the rest 7, if you are lucky, you can get him to add 3 more of those
top10 qualities... And begin to pray it lasts for as long as you both can
manage.
