Ali Baba |
Single'ton, by Ali Baba
Every now and then, I meet and get messages, from ladies, who either lost their jobs, widowed, pregnant and no job, the guy who impregnated them absconded, or is around but DOESNT give a hoot, or working but can't meet the financial demands of raising kids on their own, or the guy agreed to having the babies and to support with their upkeep... But things happened and he couldn't come through with the promised support...
Every now and then, I meet and get messages, from ladies, who either lost their jobs, widowed, pregnant and no job, the guy who impregnated them absconded, or is around but DOESNT give a hoot, or working but can't meet the financial demands of raising kids on their own, or the guy agreed to having the babies and to support with their upkeep... But things happened and he couldn't come through with the promised support...
Single mothers are increasing in numbers consequent on
one or two of the reasons mentioned above. And this always makes me ask, is it
not possible to avoid being caught up in some of these tough situations? I know
it’s impossible to know if you will be a widow and left with 2 or 3 kids to
raise by yourself, as a mother. But when it happens, what is the solution?
Some ladies just want to have kids, because they
attended a birthday party and they saw Kemi with her 2 lovely kids. They also
know Kemi has no visible source of income. Wake up!!!!! Kemi has sources of
income. Ruff n Tumble DOESNT dash kids clothes weekly... To be honest, you
don't want to know what she does to make those kids look desirable enough to
make you want to have yours. Maybe Kemi has a job. Maybe she has a rich
husband. Or maybe she has a loaded boyfriend. Saved up wealth. She could be the
"saving grace" of a guy who has been looking for a child. She may
have rich parents. She could be a surrogate mum. Who bore the kids and is
caring for the kids for the true parents.... Maybe, just maybe...